5) BRING YOUR PHONE.. If you need help or feel a little nervous, excuse yourself to the bathroom and call for back up! Put together an instant, "accidental" meeting with a friend. They're also good for emergencies or in case you think your online love is an offline stalker who's following you home. Use the cell phone to call the police - just don't head back home. Keep the person far from there. Drive to a police station if you feel it's necessary.
6) Never leave your personal belongings unattended. A purse, wallet and phone contains all your personal information. In your jacket pocket could be your keys. Just don't take the risk.
7) Do not leave your beverage unattended. If you do, nonchalantly ask for another drink.
8) Stick with non-alcoholic drinks. Being drunk is not a good way to be safe.
9) If all goes well, set-up another date before the first one comes to an end. Use your best judgment and gut instincts to determine whether or not the other person worthy of a second date. Be sure that this second date (and any others thereafter) incorporates all of these safety tips. You're worth the effort! If the other person truly cares about you, they'd expect nothing less.
1) Once you've agreed to meet face to face, don't ask the other person to pick you up. Get yourself to and from the date, even if you have to beg a ride off of a friend, take taxi, Uber or Lyft.
2) Before you go, make sure that a friend or family member know where you're going, who you're going with and when to expect you back. Make sure everyone writes down the information so that there are no misunderstandings. If you don't have someone to tell or want to keep it private, use one of the many APPS available for personal safety.
3) Always meet in a public place. A public place does not mean a parking lot - they are not monitored closely enough to be considered safe. Make your first meeting a lunch or coffee date. If the sparks don't fly, it's much easier to say that you have a meeting or some other commitment that requires you to end the date prematurely.
4) Stay in a public place. If they pressure you to go elsewhere, say NO. If they pressure you, they obviously don't care about your feelings - don't spare their feelings. End the meeting and leave. If they start to follow you to where you've parked, stop and hail a cab. Come back later for your car with a friend or family member.
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